Wistful
adjective /ˈwɪstfʊl/ — Longing for something you know you can't return to.
Definition
Having or showing a feeling of vague or regretful longing; gently sad and longing for something past or absent.
Beyond the definition
Wistfulness is one of the most specifically human experiences — the gentle ache of wanting something that belongs to another time. Not grief exactly, but the softer cousin of it. Many people's most private emotional state.
Origin & history
Origin uncertain; possibly from Old English wist 'silence' or from whistfully 'attentively.' First appeared in English around 1713.
Example sentences
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She was wistful for the city she'd left behind, not as it was, but as she'd been in it.
There was something wistful in the way he talked about the years before the success.
A wistful smile crossed her face when the song came on.
Synonyms
Antonyms
content, satisfied, present
Related words
Wistful vs nostalgic
Nostalgic describes the general state of fondly remembering the past — the warmth of memory tinged with loss. Wistful is more intimate and less specific: it's the gentle ache of longing for something you can't return to, which may be a person, a time, or a version of yourself. Nostalgic tends to look at a period; wistful tends to feel a particular absence. Nostalgia can be shared; wistfulness is almost always private.
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Fictional scene
Looking at childhood keepsakes
An adult looks wistfully at a tin containing a worn toy, a faded photograph, and a small scarf.
The nostalgic engagement with these personal objects highlights the gentle sadness and longing for a past that can no longer be physically reached, embodying the essence of regretful longing.
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