Tactful
adjective /ˈtæktfʊl/ — Skilled in handling sensitive situations — saying the necessary thing in the way that lands best.
Definition
Having or showing skill in dealing with sensitive matters or difficult people; careful not to say or do anything that will upset or offend anyone.
Beyond the definition
Tactful is the social intelligence word — the tactful person understands that how something is said is part of what is said. They find the angle on a difficult truth that doesn't destroy what doesn't need to be destroyed.
Origin & history
From tact (Latin tactus: touch, sense of touch, from tangere: to touch). Tactful as in having a fine sense of touch — the social equivalent of gentle hands.
Example sentences
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She delivered the critique in the most tactful way possible, which meant some of its force was lost — a worthwhile trade.
Tact is not dishonesty; it is the selection of what to say from among the true things.
He was tactful in a way that made even his refusals feel like gifts.
How to use it
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Choose “Tactful” when the meaning fits your context: Having or showing skill in dealing with sensitive matters or difficult people; careful not to say or do anything that will upset or offend anyone.
Synonyms
diplomatic, sensitive, considerate, discreet, judicious
Antonyms
tactless, blunt, insensitive, brutal
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Fictional scene
Comfortable Conversational Exchange
Two friends sit at a local cafe table, speaking with gentle hand gestures and relaxed, genuine expressions in a quiet, unpretentious setting.
The relaxed, genuine interaction reflects tact through the friends' ability to navigate a comfortable, unhurried conversation, implying a sensitive management of social space where they remain careful to maintain rapport and ease without overstepping or causing discomfort.
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Questions about this word
What does "Tactful" mean?
Tactful is adjective meaning: Skilled in handling sensitive situations — saying the necessary thing in the way that lands best.. Having or showing skill in dealing with sensitive matters or difficult people; careful not to say or do anything that will upset or offend anyone.
Where does the word "Tactful" come from?
From tact (Latin tactus: touch, sense of touch, from tangere: to touch). Tactful as in having a fine sense of touch — the social equivalent of gentle hands.