Nonchalance
noun /ˌnɒnʃəˈlɑːns/ — A relaxed ease that is apparently indifferent to what impresses others.
Definition
The quality of being coolly and casually at ease — not through disengagement, but through such complete confidence that effort and anxiety become unnecessary.
Beyond the definition
Real nonchalance is never performed. It arrives when you care enough about something to have mastered it, and not enough about others' reactions to show off that mastery. It is ease made permanent.
Origin & history
French: 'non' (not) + 'chaloir' (to be warm/concerned) — literally 'not warming.' Passed into English in the 18th century with its Gallic coolness intact.
Example sentences
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She declined the offer with such nonchalance it made everyone more curious.
His nonchalance about the deal closing unsettled the other bidders.
There is a kind of power in nonchalance that aggression can never achieve.
Synonyms
insouciance, ease, cool, sangfroid
Antonyms
anxiety, eagerness, desperation
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An adult in a perfectly ordered room is arranging three simple objects on a wooden tray with soft, deliberate lighting.
The calm confidence shown in arranging these objects with such ease demonstrates nonchalance. The person is completely at ease, displaying such control that the effort required is invisible, reflecting a sophisticated confidence that suggests they are not noticeably trying to impress.
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