JOMO

noun /ˈdʒoʊ.moʊ/ — Joy of Missing Out — contentment with solitude and staying in

Definition

Joy of Missing Out: the contentment and pleasure found in opting out — staying home, being alone, declining invitations without regret. JOMO is FOMO's happier, quieter counterpart.

Beyond the definition

JOMO is the word for people who have made peace with their own company — who no longer need external validation for the choice to stay in. It's introversion with a press release.

Origin & history

Response to FOMO culture — coined as its direct opposite. Popularised in the 2010s as a counter-cultural celebration of solitude, quiet, and the decision not to be everywhere.

Example sentences

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She turned down the party with zero guilt. Pure JOMO.

JOMO is what happens when you stop needing permission to enjoy your own company.

In a culture that valorises busyness, JOMO is almost a rebellious act.

How to use it

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Choose “JOMO” when the meaning fits your context: Joy of Missing Out: the contentment and pleasure found in opting out — staying home, being alone, declining invitations without regret. JOMO is FOMO's happier, quieter counterpart.

Synonyms

joy of solitude, contentment with opting out, happy staying in

Antonyms

FOMO, social anxiety, overcommitment

Related words

JOMO vs introversion

JOMO is the active, joyful choice to disconnect from social pressures. Introversion is a personality trait reflecting a preference for low-stimulation environments.

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Fictional scene

Choosing Silence over Engagement

Conceptual illustration: An adult sits in a quiet, minimalist room, hands folded calmly, eyes focused on a distant, blurred garden. The person is completely still, choosing not to respond to a ringing phone on the desk.

An adult sits in a minimalist room, eyes focused on a distant garden, choosing not to answer a phone.

The person finds deep satisfaction in the intentional decision to opt out. JOMO is this quiet contentment in declining invitations, finding pleasure in being alone and present rather than feeling the constant pull of the outside world.

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Questions about this word

What does "JOMO" mean?

JOMO is noun meaning: Joy of Missing Out — contentment with solitude and staying in. Joy of Missing Out: the contentment and pleasure found in opting out — staying home, being alone, declining invitations without regret. JOMO is FOMO's happier, quieter counterpart.

Where does the word "JOMO" come from?

Response to FOMO culture — coined as its direct opposite. Popularised in the 2010s as a counter-cultural celebration of solitude, quiet, and the decision not to be everywhere.

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