Engaging
adjective /ɪnˈɡeɪdʒɪŋ/ — Capturing and holding attention — making you want to be present.
Definition
Charming and attractive; tending to draw favorable attention or interest; holding the attention and interest of others through quality of presence or personality.
Beyond the definition
Engaging has a useful precision — it's about sustained attention, not just initial attraction. The engaging person or book or conversation holds you past the first impression. The engagement is a commitment: you've signed on for the duration.
Origin & history
From French engager — to pledge (from gage: pledge). To engage was originally to bind or pledge — the engaging quality is one that creates a kind of soft commitment in the other person. You're held.
Example sentences
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The talk was the most engaging she'd heard all year — two hours that felt like thirty minutes.
He was engaging without being charming — a subtle but important difference.
An engaging idea is one you carry with you after the conversation, still turning it over.
How to use it
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Choose “Engaging” when the meaning fits your context: Charming and attractive; tending to draw favorable attention or interest; holding the attention and interest of others through quality of presence or personality.
Synonyms
captivating, compelling, fascinating, absorbing, charming
Antonyms
dull, tedious, off-putting
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Adult delivering a clever joke
A close-up of an adult’s face as they deliver a clever, dry joke with a small, subtle smile.
The intelligence and playfulness in the eyes of the speaker capture and hold the observer’s attention, making the remark engaging and delightfully interesting.
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Questions about this word
What does "Engaging" mean?
Engaging is adjective meaning: Capturing and holding attention — making you want to be present.. Charming and attractive; tending to draw favorable attention or interest; holding the attention and interest of others through quality of presence or personality.
Where does the word "Engaging" come from?
From French engager — to pledge (from gage: pledge). To engage was originally to bind or pledge — the engaging quality is one that creates a kind of soft commitment in the other person. You're held.