Limerence vs Infatuation: What’s the Difference?

The difference at a glance

Limerence describes a specific, involuntary, and obsessive state of being consumed by thoughts of another. Infatuation is a more general, short-lived, and intense romantic interest that lacks the darker, compulsive depth of limerence.

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What does Limerence mean?

noun · /ˈlɪmərəns/

An involuntary state of intense romantic obsession characterized by intrusive thoughts, longing for reciprocation, and emotional dependency on another person.

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Limerence in a sentence

What she felt wasn't love — it was limerence, obsessive and slightly delusional.

He recognized his limerence for what it was: wanting to be wanted, not knowing the person.

What does Infatuation mean?

noun · /ɪnˌfætʃuˈeɪʃən/

An intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something; attraction so powerful it temporarily overrides judgment.

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Infatuation in a sentence

She recognised it as infatuation — and kept going anyway.

Infatuation narrows the world to one person, which is both the pleasure and the problem.

Frequently asked questions

What is the difference between Limerence and Infatuation?

Limerence describes a specific, involuntary, and obsessive state of being consumed by thoughts of another. Infatuation is a more general, short-lived, and intense romantic interest that lacks the darker, compulsive depth of limerence.

What does Limerence mean?

An involuntary state of intense romantic obsession characterized by intrusive thoughts, longing for reciprocation, and emotional dependency on another person.

What does Infatuation mean?

An intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something; attraction so powerful it temporarily overrides judgment.

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